The first time has a lot more significance.

7
All I can think about is how my boyfriend's ex-fiancé already had so many firsts with him (road trips, "meet the family" dinners, engagement, wedding planning) and I'll always be the second choice.

From:
Union Lake, Michigan, US

You can't help but wonder.

8
I think I was my boyfriend's second choice... and I'm sure he still likes the other guy more.

From:
Tirdeunaw

Things could have been very different.

9
My boyfriend's ex died of cancer about 4 years ago and sometimes I start to feel bad about it because I know if she were still here we wouldn't be dating me. I feel like a second choice.

From:
AB

When you know, you know.

10
I knew I was my boyfriend's second choice.

From:
Somewhere

The insecurity really takes hold.

11
I secretly feel threatened by my bf's previous 3 year relationship.  My biggest fear is being a second choice and having him settle for me. I want to be important to him.

From:
Island Walk

It's not always so bad.

12
I'm my husband's second choice.
I'm okay with that.

From:
Somewhere

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